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Relationship is not about age, not about the distance , not about communicating every moment of everyday. What's important is having TRUST and LOYALTY. The trust of a woman to her man and the loyalty of a man to his woman.

Save Al Aqsha

Masjid al-Aqsa is referred to in the Holy Qur'an many times. Allah Most High says that he has 'blessed' the land for all His creation. This beautiful Mosque is in Jerusalem, and was the second house of Allah built soon after the Ka'bah in Makkah.

There are many hadiths which praise Jerusalem and make it sacred. Al-Aqsa was the first qibla for Muslims.

The Prophet Muhammad (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) came to Masjid al-Aqsa on the incredible night journey Al-Isra' and Al-Mi'raj

Jews believe that the Temple of Solomon is buried below Al Aqsa mosque, and extremist Jews have called for the destruction of the mosque to rebuild the alleged temple.

The mega plan of Zionism is to raze the actual Al Aqsa to ground, and fool the people of the world by showing the Dome of the Rock as that would be left intact! The hate merchants, however, forget the fact that Allah is the Protector of His house. May Allah defeat the ploy of a people who went astray. Aameen.

THE SECRETS OF SABR (PATIENCE)

THE SECRETS OF SABR By Irshad Ibn Yusuf
In the Arabic language, sabr means ‘to hold fast’ ‘cease,’ or ‘choke’. For example, in Bedouin Arabic, to say “one has been killed by sabr,” means one was choked to death. Allaah the Most High Says (what means): “And keep yourself patient [by being] with those who call upon their Lord in the morning and the evening, seeking His countenance…” [Quran 18: 28]. Sabr in this verse means to ‘hold to.’

Thus sabr means to hold one’s self from anxiety (jaza') and anger (tasakhkhut), to hold one’s tongue from complaint, and to hold one’s body from disgraceful movements.

It is of three types: Patience in obeying Allaah the Most High (namely, perseverance), patience in avoiding Allaah’s disobedience (namely, resolve), and patience in Allaah’s tests. The first two of these are related to voluntary acts, over which we as humans have control. The last pertains to what happens to us (by Allaah’s Decree) wherein we have no choice.

The patience of the Prophet Yousuf may Allaah exalt his mention

I have heard Ibn Taymiyyah 
may Allaah have mercy upon him say: [The Prophet] Yousuf’s patience in resisting the temptation of the minister’s wife was higher than his patience regarding his brothers’ throwing him into the well and separating him from his father, for the latter happened to him without his choice. In such cases, a servant of Allaah has no option but patience. But his perseverance in avoiding the seduction (of the minister’s wife) involved his choice and pleasure (resulting from his volitional obedience to Allaah), and struggling against his self. This is especially true because there were factors complicating the situation which made it all the harder for him. Not only was he young and full of powerful natural desire, he also was unmarried (thus lacking an appropriate way of satisfying those native urges). He was furthermore a stranger in the land with no relatives or friends to be 

ashamed before (had he fornicated). Moreover, he was a slave, and in servitude one’s moral restraint (wazi’) is not as it is in freedom. Further, the woman (seeking to seduce him) was beautiful, of high status, and his owner, and she tempted him when her husband was out. On top of all this, she threatened him with imprisonment and humiliation if he were not to oblige her. Yet despite all these factors, he was patient out of his own choice, preferring what is with Allaah. How much better it is compared to his patience in the well, wherein he had no choice?”

He [&Ibn Taymiyyah&&] also used to say: “Patience through the performance of righteous acts is better and higher in status than patience in avoiding sins, for the benefit that comes from the performance of a righteous deed is dearer to the Lawgiver (Allaah the Most High) than the benefit that comes from abjuring sin. Likewise, the ill that arises from the absence of righteous obedience is more hateful to Allaah the Most High than the ill that arises from the presence of disobedience.”
He has a treatise in this matter in which he has supported this opinion in 20 different ways, but this is not the occasion to mention them. Our purpose here is to discuss patience, its reality, its levels and ranks. Allaah the Most High alone gives success.

Various ranks of patience

Patience is also of three sorts: Patience by Allaah (billaah), patience for Allaah (lillaah), and patience with Allaah (ma‘allaah).

The first, patience by Allaah, consists in seeking Allaah’s help and seeing Allaah as the source of patience. For the patience of a servant is not in his own power but is his Lord’s gift, as He the Most High Says (what means), “And be patient [O Muhammad], and your patience is not but through Allaah. And do not grieve over them and do not be in distress over what they conspire.” [Quran 16:127].That is to say, if Allah does not give you patience, you shall not be patient.

The second, patience for Allaah, means that the motivation of your patience must he the love of Allaah, the will to seek His pleasure, and nearness to Him——not the desire to exhibit your self-control, to seek the praise of people, or for any other reasons.

The third, patience with Allah, is comprised of the servant’s effort to keep with Allaah’s religious decrees and requirements, in terms of persevering with them, living with them, establishing them, going with them wherever they take one, and stopping wherever they stop. One’s patience with Allaah is to attach the “self” (nafs) to the things Allaah the Most High commands and loves. This is the hardest and most demanding type of patience. It is the patience of the Siddiqoon (those of the highest degree of truthfulness and faithfulness.)

The sage Al-Junayd may Allaah have mercy upon him said: “The journey from this world to the Hereafter is easy and light for a believer when compared with renouncing people (for their rejection of faith) in front of Allaah, which is hard. The journey from the self to Allaah is harder still.

Yet to be patient with Allaah is the hardest of all. He was asked about patience. So he said: “It is to swallow bitterness without frowning.”

It has also been said that [patience] is “the endurance of the self in attacking adversities.” And also “withstanding a calamity with a good attitude [patience] is like enjoying peace and felicity.”

The elite [worshippers of Allaah] say: “[Patience] is to stand firm on the commandments of the Book and the Sunnah.”

It has been said that the ranks of sabr are five: Saabir, mustabir, mutasabbir, saboor, and sabbaar. The first, saabir, is the most general. Mustabir is of the one who has earned patience and is filled with it. Mutasabbir is of one who forces one’s “self” to it [against all odds]. Saboor is of one whose patience is great in comparison to others. And, finally, sabbaar, is of one who has a great amount of patience— greater than any of the [people meant by these four] earlier [descriptions].

Regarding the words of Allaah, the Most High (which mean): “O you who have believed, persevere and endure and remain stationed and fear Allaah that you may be successful.” [Quran 3:200] —it has been said that this verse proceeds from the easier [and lesser] command to the harder and nobler. This means that sabr is less than musaabara, and musaabara is less than muraabatah.

The word ‘muraabatah’ comes from rabt which means a tie or hold. Someone is called al-muraabit because he ties his horse and waits for the enemy’s assault. Hence, this term has been used for anyone who ties and holds his “self” in discipline and waits for Allaah’s commandments.

The Prophet Muhammad sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) has said: “Shall I not inform you of that by which Allaah erases sins and raises ranks? Perfecting ablution (wudhou’), even when it is difficult, walking frequently to the mosques, and waiting for a prayer after another [has finished]: That is ribaat! That is ribaat!” (Muslim, Maalik, At-Tirmithi) He sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) also said: “Waiting patiently for a single day in the path of Allaah is better than this world and all that is in it.” (Al-Bukhaari, Ahmad)

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Smile

Smile, though your heart is aching
Smile, even though it's breaking
When there are clouds in the sky

You'll get by if you smile
Through your fear and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just

Smile

Light up your face with gladness
Hide every trace of sadness
Although a tear may be ever so near

That's the time you must keep on trying
Smile, what's the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just

Smile...

Smile, though your heart is aching
Smile, even though it's breaking
When there are clouds in the sky
You'll get by

If you smile
Through your fear and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just smile

That's the time you must keep on trying
Smile, what's the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just smile

Itikaf

The literal meaning of the word Itikaf is ‘sticking and adhering to something, or to be regular in something’. In Islamic context, Itikaf means: ‘To confine oneself in a mosque for prayers, invocations and Ibadah, leaving the worldly activities for a limited no. of days.’ It is one another recommended Sunnah which bears great rewards for the person who does it. A Mu’takif (one who observes Itikaf) is supposed to devote himself to Ibadah during these days, away from worldly affairs. The Ibadah may include performing Nawafil prayers, Invocations, Recitation & understanding of Qur’an, Reading & understanding hadith etc. And, mostly, Itikaf is associated with trying to find out the ‘Night of Qadr‘.
As our usual way is, we shall split our discussion in to several smaller questions to get a comprehensive insight in to the details associated with this beautiful Sunnah.
Most of the narrations found in different collections of ahadith tell us that the most preferred time of observing Itikaf is the last ten days of the month of Ramadan.

THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES”

Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

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I hope you all will Reblog. Lets See how many of you really care for this.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.
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Hikmah di balik Puasa

Hikmah Dibalik Buka Puasa

Berbuka puasa adalah saat yang istimewa bagi orang yang bepuasa. Namun sesungguhnya nila buka puasa bukan semata karena orang yang berpuasa akan menyantap makanan setelah sekian lama menahan lapar dan dahaga. Di dalamnya begitu banyak pelajaran berharga bagi mereka yang ingin mengambil pelajaran:

a. Kebahagiaan hakiki ada pada ketaatan kita kepada Allah.

Dalam hadits yang cukup populer, Rasulullah saw bersabda, “Bagi orang yang berpuasa, ada dua kegembiraan; Gembira ketika berbuka puasa, dan gembira ketika berjumpa tuhhannya.” (HR. Muslim)

Setiap orang pasti mencari kebahagiaan. Namun sayang, banyak yang mencarinya dengan cara menerjang rambu-rambu ajaran Allah. Boleh jadi dia bahagia, namun bukan kebahagiaan hakiki, tapi kebahagiaan semu. Banyak kita dapati bukti, berbagai kemungkaran dan kemaksiatan yang dilakukan atas nama mencari kebahagiaan, justeru menjadi sumber bencana bagi pelakunya, itu baru di dunia, apalagi di akhirat.

Kebahagiaan hakiki ada pada ketaatan dan ketundukan kita terhadap ajaran Allah, manakala kita jalani dengan penuh ikhlas, diiringi rasa cinta, harap dan takut kepadaNya. Sebab keyakinan kita adalah, tidaklah ada yang Allah dan RasulNya perintahkan, kecuali didalamnya terdapat kebaikan, di dunia maupun akhirat. Dan tidaklah ada yang Allah dan RasulNya larang, kecuali di dalamnya mendatangkan celaka, baik di dunia maupun akhirat.

b. Dunia hanya sesaat, jangan pusatkan hidup kita untuknya.

Sesaat kita berbuka puasa, gambaran kenikmatan makanan-makanan yang lezat seketika sirna. Apalagi jika perut kita telah kenyang, selezat apapun makanan yang ada di hadapan tak terasa apa-apa di lidah.

Begitulah kurang lebih gambaran dunia, berbagai kesenangan dunia di kejar, ketika didapat, tak lama kemudian dia ternyata biasa saja. Karena itu, untuk yang sifatnya sementara, jangan kita tumpahkan dan pusatkan perhatian kita untuknya. Justeru kita harus pusatkan perhatian kita pada yang sifatnya abadi; Akhirat kita. Sebab rugilah hidup kita hanya untuk urusan dunia belaka, sebab dia hanya sesaat saja, dan pilihannya hanya dua, dia meninggalkan kita atau kita 

meninggalkannya.

Ini bukan seruan untuk mengabaikan kehidupan dunia, justeru kita harus mendapatkan kebaikan dunia sebesar-besarnya. Tapi persoalan intinya adalah bagaimana dunia kita dalam segala sisi dan dimensinya, kita jadikan alat dan sarana untuk kebaikan akhirat kita. Ilmu kita, harta kita, jabatan kita, tenaga kita, dan lainnya, kita manfaatkan untuk kebaikan akirat kita.

b. Letihnya taat dan lezatnya maksiat sama-sama akan hilanng, namun hasilnya berbeda.

Saat kita berbuka, seketika itu juga kan hilang keletihan, lapar dan haus, di sisi lain, harapan kita besar untuk mendapatkan pahala dari Allah Taala. Itulah makna doa yang kita baca saat berdoa,

ذهب الظمأ وابتلت العروق وثبت الأجر إن شاء الله

“Haus telah lenyap, nadi telah basah, dan pahala telah ditetapkan insya Allah.” (HR. Abu Daud)

Sebaliknya maksiat, kenikmatannya pun akan lenyap. Namun berbeda dengan ibadah yang menjanjikan pahala dan ridha Allah, maksiat menjanjikan dosa dan murka Allah. Karena itu, umumnya maksiat melahirkan galau dan perasaan tidak tenang dalam kehidupan.

Hal ini mengingatkan kita untuk bersabar menanggung keletihan-keletihan dalam rangka taat dan amal saleh, semuanya hanya sementara, tapi dibalik itu mengandung kebahagiaan dan ketenangan. Di sisi lain, jangan mudah terbujuk oleh kesenangan dan kelezatan maksiat yang sesaat. Itu hanya sementara, sementara kepedihan dan kesengsaraan yang akan ditanggung bersifat abadi. Adakah orang yang sehat akalnya rela menanggung penderitaan abadi demi meraih kesenangan sesaat? Tentu tidak!

c. Kelapangan yang didapat setelah penderitaaan lebih mudah disyukuri.

Saat kita berbuka puasa, terasa sekali nikmatnya makanan yang kita santap dan minuman yang kita hirup, bahkan walau apa adanya sekalipun, dan berikutnya ucapan Alhamdulillah sebagai ungkapan syukur begitu mudah mengalir dari bibir kita. Padahal di waktu lain bukan pada saat berbuka, boleh jadi kita memakan makanan yang lebih lezat, namun rasa syukur kita tak hadir seketika. Padahal pada keduanya ada nikmat Allah yang wajib disyukuri.

Demikianlah di antara manfaat kesuitan, cobaan dan keterbatasan dalam kehidupan, manaka Allah berikan kelapangan dalam kehidupan, akan mendatangkan rasa syukur dengan mudah. Bahkan rasanya pun lebih nikmat dan mantap. Rasa nikmat seorang miskin papa saat tiba-tiba mendapatkan uang sejuta rupiah akan berbeda dengan mereka yang hidup berlimpah, jangankan sejuta, puluhan juta pun seperti tak ada sesuatu nikmat yang special jika tidak disadari.

Ujian dan kesulitan hidup bukan untuk diratapi, tapi kita hadapi dengan landasan iman dan takwa serta usaha keras seraya terus berdoa. Ketika Allah bukakan jalan keluarnya, akan sangat terasa nikmatnya.

Kita mungkin sering mengeluh dengan berbagai problem yang kita hadapi. Tapi sadarkan kita? di sisi lain kita memiliki kenikmatan yang sangat diimpi-impikan sebagian orang, seperti kesehatan, kelapangan, keamanan, dll

(Manhajuna/AFS)

Ramadan

Iftar together In Indonesia my country we always make a lot of food or we bring some food for eat on break fasting together 
That is one of the best parts of Ramadan meet all family, old friend, talk each other at night after praying taraweeh listen the khutbah and bonding with my fellow Muslim family, friend .
 I feel that this month not only brings me closer to Allah, but also my family, friends, and my community. This Ramadan,,we try to create stronger bonds with our family , friends These are the bonds that will last forever.I'm gonna miss Ramadan

Wanita yang mendapat pujian dan Yang dilaknat ALlah SWT

Sejarah telah mencatat beberapa nama wanita terpandang yang di antara mereka ada yang dimuliakan Allah dengan surga, dan di antara mereka ada pula yang dihinakan Allah dengan neraka. tidak semua bisa dihadirkan saat ini, Mudah-mudahan apa yang sedikit ini bisa menjadi ibrah (pelajaran) bagi kita.

🌹Wanita Yang Beriman

🌹Sabda Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam :

🌹“Seutama-utama wanita ahli surga adalah Khadijah binti Khuwailid, Fathimah binti Muhammad, Maryam binti Imran dan Asiyah binti Muzahim.” (HR. Ahmad)

🌹Khadijah binti Khuwailid
Dia tumbuh dalam lingkungan keluarga yang terhormat sehingga mendapat tempaan akhlak yang mulia, sifat yang tegas, penalaran yang tinggi, dan mampu menghindari hal-hal yang tidak terpuji sehingga kaumnya pada masa jahiliyah menyebutnya dengan ath thahirah (wanita yang suci).

🌹Dia merupakan orang pertama yang menyambut seruan iman yang dibawa Muhammad tanpa banyak membantah dan berdebat, bahkan ia tetap membenarkan, menghibur, dan membela Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam di saat semua orang mendustakan dan mengucilkan beliau. Khadijah telah mengorbankan seluruh hidupnya, jiwa dan hartanya untuk kepentingan dakwah di jalan Allah. Ia rela melepaskan kedudukannya yang terhormat di kalangan bangsanya dan ikut merasakan embargo yang dikenakan pada keluarganya.

Pribadinya yang tenang membuatnya tidak tergesa-gesa dalam mengambil keputusan mengikuti kebanyakan pendapat penduduk negerinya yang menganggap Muhammad sebagai orang yang telah merusak tatanan dan tradisi luhur bangsanya. Karena keteguhan hati dan keistiqomahannya dalam beriman inilah Allah berkenan menitip salamNya lewat Jibril untuk Khadijah dan menyiapkan sebuah rumah baginya di surga.

🌹Tersebut dalam sebuah hadits dari Abu Hurairah, ia berkata:

🌹Jibril datang kepada Nabi kemudian berkata: Wahai Rasulullah, ini Khadijah datang membawa bejana berisi lauk pauk, makanan dan minuman. Maka jika ia telah tiba, sampaikan salam untuknya dari Rabbnya dan dari aku, dan sampaikan kabar gembira untuknya dengan sebuah rumah dari mutiara di surga, tidak ada keributan di dalamnya dan tidak pula ada kepayahan.” (HR. Al-Bukhari).

🌹Besarnya keimanan Khadijah pada risalah nubuwah, dan kemuliaan akhlaknya sangat membekas di hati Rasulullah sehingga beliau selalu menyebut-nyebut kebaikannya walaupun Khadijah telah wafat. Diriwayatkan dari Aisyah, beliau berkata: “Rasulullah hampir tidak pernah keluar dari rumah sehingga beliau menyebut-nyebut kebaikan tentang Khadijah dan memuji-mujinya setiap hari sehingga aku menjadi cemburu maka aku berkata: Bukankah ia seorang wanita tua yang Allah telah meng-gantikannya dengan yang lebih baik untuk engkau? Maka beliau marah sampai berkerut dahinya kemudian bersabda: Tidak! Demi Allah, Allah tidak memberiku ganti yang lebih baik darinya. Sungguh ia telah beriman di saat manusia mendustakanku, dan menolongku dengan harta di saat manusia menjauhiku, dan dengannya Allah mengaruniakan anak padaku dan tidak dengan wanita (istri) yang lain. Aisyah berkata: Maka aku berjanji untuk tidak menjelek-jelekkannya selama-lamanya.”

🌹FatimahDia adalah belahan jiwa Rasulullah, putri wanita terpandang dan mantap agamanya, istri dari laki-laki ahli surga yaitu Ali bin Abi Thalib.

🌹Dalam shahih Muslim menurut syarah An Nawawi Nabi bersabda: “Fathimah merupakan belahan diriku. Siapa yang menyakitinya, berarti menyakitiku.”

🌹Dia rela hidup dalam kefakiran untuk mengecap manisnya iman bersama ayah dan suami tercinta. Dia korbankan segala apa yang dia miliki demi membantu menegakkan agama suami.

🌹Fathimah adalah wanita yang penyabar, taat beragama, baik perangainya, cepat puas dan suka bersyukur.

🌹Maryam binti Imran
Beliau merupakan figur wanita yang menjaga kehormatan dirinya dan taat beribadah kepada Rabbnya. Beliau rela mengorbankan masa remajanya untuk bermunajat mendekatkan diri pada Allah, sehingga Dia memberinya hadiah istimewa berupa kelahiran seorang Nabi dari rahimnya tanpa bapak.

🌹Asiyah binti Muzahim
Beliau adalah istri dari seorang penguasa yang lalim yaitu Fir’aun laknatullah ‘alaih. Akibat dari keimanan Asiyah kepada kerasulan Musa, ia harus rela menerima siksaan pedih dari suaminya. Betapapun besar kecintaan dan kepatuhannya pada suami ternyata di hatinya masih tersedia tempat tertinggi yang ia isi dengan cinta pada Allah dan RasulNya. Surga menjadi tujuan akhirnya sehingga kesulitan dan kepedihan yang ia rasakan di dunia sebagai akibat meninggalkan kemewahan hidup, budaya dan tradisi leluhur yang menyelisihi syariat Allah ia telan begitu saja bak pil kina demi kesenangan abadi. Akhirnya Asiyah meninggal dalam keadaan tersenyum dalam siksaan pengikut Fir’aun.

Dari Abu Hurairah, Nabi Shallallahu alaihi wasalam berkata:

🌹“Fir’aun memukulkan kedua tangan dan kakinya (Asiyah) dalam keadaan terikat. Maka ketika mereka (Fir’aun dan pengikutnya) meninggalkan Asiyah, malaikat menaunginya lalu ia berkata: Ya Rabb bangunkan sebuah rumah bagiku di sisimu dalam surga. Maka Allah perlihatkan rumah yang telah disediakan untuknya di surga sebelum meninggal.”

🌹Wanita yang durhaka

🌹Istri Nabi Nuh
Istri Nabi Luth
Mereka merupakan figur dua orang istri dari para kekasih Allah yang tidak sempat merasakan manisnya iman. Hatinya lebih condong kepada apa yang diikuti oleh orang banyak daripada kebenaran yang dibawa oleh suaminya. Mereka justru membela kepentingan kaumnya karena tidak ingin dimusuhi dan dibenci oleh orang-orang yang selama ini mencintai dan menghormati dirinya. Maka kesenangan sesaat ini Allah gantikan dengan kebinasaan yang didapat bersama kaumnya. Istri Nabi Nuh ikut tenggelam oleh banjir besar bersama kaumnya yang menyekutukan Allah dengan menyembah patung-patung orang shalih, sedangkan istri Nabi Luth ditelan bumi karena adzab Allah atas kaumnya yang melakukan liwath (homoseksual).

🌹Semua cerita ini telah Allah rangkum dalam sebuah firmanNya yang indah dalam surat At-Tahrim ayat 10-12, yang artinya: “Allah membuat istri Nuh dan istri Luth perumpamaan bagi orang-orang kafir. Keduanya berada di bawah pengawasan dua orang hamba yang shalih di antara hamba-hamba Kami, lalu kedua istri itu berkhianat kepada kedua suaminya, maka kedua suaminya itu tiada dapat membantu mereka sedikitpun dari (siksa) Allah: dan dikatakan (kepada keduanya) : Masuklah ke neraka bersama orang-orang yang masuk (neraka). Dan Allah membuat istri Fir’aun perumpamaan bagi orang-orang yang beriman, ketika ia berkata: Ya Tuhanku, bangunlah untukku sebuah rumah di sisimu dalam Surga. Dan selamatkanlah aku dari Fir’aun dan perbuatannya, dan selamatkanlah aku dari kaum yang dhalim. Dan Maryam puteri Imran yang memelihara kehor-matannya, maka Kami tiupkan ke dalam rahimnya sebagian dari roh (ciptaan) Kami, dan dia membenarkan kalimat-kalimat Tuhannya dan kitab-kitabnya dan adalah dia termasuk orang-orang yang taat.”

🌹Semoga kisah di atas dapat menjadi pelajaran bagi kita semua untuk memperbanyak amal shalih dan mendekatkan diri kepada Allah SWTserta tetap tunduk dan patuh kepada syariat Allah SWT dan Sunnah Rasulullah SAW. Semoga kita di beri keistiqomahan agar tetap tunduk dan patuh pada Allah SWT dan RAsulullah SAW.

"14 ABAD YANG LALU DIA PERNAH MERINDUKANMU"

Dialah Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam…

📅 Tepat sembilan hari menjelang wafatnya turunlah firman Allah subhanahu wata'ala yang berbunyi:
وَاتَّقُوا يَوْمًا تُرْجَعُونَ فِيهِ إِلَى اللهِ ثُمَّ تُوَفَّى كُلُّ نَفْسٍ مَا كَسَبَتْ وَهُمْ لاَ يُظْلَمُونَ

🔊“ Dan peliharalah diri kalian dari (azab yang terjadi pada) hari yang pada waktu itu kalian semua dikembalikan kepada Allah. Kemudian masing-masing diri diberi balasan yang sempurna terhadap apa yang telah dikerjakannya, sedang mereka sedikit pun tidak didzalimi.”
(Al Baqarah : 281)

Semenjak itu raut kesedihan mulai tampak di wajah beliau yang suci.

💬 “Aku ingin mengunjungi syuhada Uhud" ujar beliau.
Beliaupun pergi menuju makam syuhada Uhud, sesampainya disana beliau mendekati makam para syuhada dan berkata, “Assalamu’alaikum wahai syuhada Uhud, kalian telah mendahului kami. Insya Allah kamipun akan menyusul kalian.”

Ditengah perjalanan pulang, Rasulullah Shallallahu Alaihi Wasallam menangis.

Para sahabat yang mendapinginya bertanya,
“Apa yang membuatmu menangis wahai Rasulullah?”

💬Beliau menjawab,
“Aku rindu kepada saudara-saudaraku.”

Mereka berkata,
“Bukankah kami adalah saudara-saudaramu wahai Rasulullah?”

💬Beliau menjawab,
“Bukan, kalian adalah sahabat-sahabatku. Adapun saudara-saudaraku adalah mereka yang datang sesudahku, mereka beriman kepadaku padahal mereka belum pernah melihatku.”
(HR. Ahmad)

Alangkah tulus ungkapan itu..

Namun tersisa beragam tanya:
Kitakah yang dirindukan itu…?
Bila iya, Sudahkah kita merindukannya…?
Sudahkah kita beriman sehingga pantas dirindu…?
Sudahkan kita mengamalkan sunnahnya sebagai bukti cinta…?
Pantaskah diri yang lalai ini dirindukan Rasul suci yang mulia…?

Duhai.. alangkah malangnya bila yang dirindukan itu terusir dari telaga haudhnya.

💥Alangkah malangnya bila nanti terdengar darinya ucapan, “menjauhlah dari telagaku…”
Kau tau kenapa…?
Karena mereka telah merubah-rubah Agama yang dibawanya.
Wahai insan yang dirindu….

▶Ikutilah jalan hidup manusia agung yang dulu pernah merindukanmu..

Jauhi segala macam bid’ah dalam agama, agar kau tak terusir dari telaganya.

Buktikan cintamu dengan ittiba’ agar cintamu tak bertepuk sebelah tangan.

Ingat selalu firman Allah azza wa jalla:
Katakanlah (wahai Muhammad): “Jika kalian mencintai Allah, ikutilah aku, niscaya Allah mengasihi dan mengampuni dosa-dosamu”. Allah Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang."

(QS. 3:31)

Ingat kawan….
Ditepi telaga haudh beliau menanti kita..

“Aku akan mendahului kalian di telaga. Aku sebagai saksi atas kalian” dan sesungguhnya—demi Allah— saat ini aku sedang memandang telagaku itu”
(HR. al-Bukhari dan Muslim)

Kitab: "TAMAN ORANG JATUH CINTA"
karya Ibnul Qoyyim al Jauziyyah

When will i see you again

"Life is parting and meeting ..
Do not say goodbye (when split) ... !!! But say, "Until we meet again".
When we feel happy meeting, then be prepared to feel the pain of separation.
That world, nothing is eternal togetherness. Then love anyone you want, for surely you will be with them in the hereafter.
Prophet said:
"Someone will be with the person she loves"
"It is not someone loves a people, but will be gathered with them"
Fortunately for those who do not love it Ground the exception to the goodness, and the righteous people.